Hello,
I'm sorry to hear about your current situation. Firstly here is a few resources's that may help you according to your situation, and need's.
http://211.org/
http://www.biblegateway.com/
http://www.childcarenet.org/about-us
http://www.dshs.wa.gov/
http://www.helpforlowincome.com/
http://www.prosper.com/
http://www.freecycle.org/
http://www.ssa.gov/pgm/medicare.htm
http://pantrynet.org/Page1.html
http://freefood.org/
http://www.childcarenet.org/about-us
http://www.usachurches.org/christian/other/non-denominational-independent/
http://www.christianprayercenter.com/
http://www.tinyurl.com/swagalot.com
http://www.rent-help.com/2010/09/looking-for-rent-help.html
One thing above all you could do that would benefit you the most, and that is to keep God first in your life. I'm a living, breathing testimony of how real God is. We sometime's do, and then pray. When we need to pray, and then do. Why? because once we get God in on our situation that he already knew about he can direct our step's as we acknowledge him. God is faithful... I don't know why your other half is in custody, and that is none of my business. I do know that you are a loving, caring, nurturing mother, and you want what is best for you, and your child. Do what is safe, and best for you, and your child's safety. = )
Please keep me informed.
I am interceding with God on your behalf in advance. Keep God first, and thing's will work out.
be encouraged, and be blessed.
Mike